Prince Harry's 'Need for Fights Was There' Before Meghan—Book

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Prince Harry was "fun to work with," but "the need for fights" with the media and palace staffers "was there the whole time," even before his marriage to Meghan Markle, according to a new royal biography.

Staff members accompanying the prince on royal tours found him "very creative" and "hands on," but also prone to fits of anger, author Valentine Low details in his new book, Courtiers: The Hidden Power Behind the Crown.

Low, a prominent British royal correspondent, is notable for having first broken the story of bullying allegations lodged against Meghan by former members of palace staff, which was published in the days before the broadcast of her interview with Oprah Winfrey in 2021.

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle "Courtiers" Book
Meghan Markle and Prince Harry photographed during Queen Elizabeth II's Platinum Jubilee celebrations on June 3, 2022. A new book says Harry's issues with the media and palace staffers pre-dates his relationship with Meghan. Max Mumby/Indigo/Getty Images

A large focus within Courtiers is on Harry and Meghan, and how their relationship with staff members evolved over the course of their time as a working royal couple.

A period of time Low cites as having an impact on Harry's staff and workload was in 2014 as he transitioned out of the armed forces to take up royal duties full time.

The prince had served two tours of active duty in Afghanistan in 2007 and 2012.

"It was a busy time," Low writes. "Harry was moving on to the next stage in his life. In 2014, he stopped flying Apache helicopters and moved to a desk job in London, for which he was totally unsuitable: he finally left the army in 2015.

"The workload for his office was increasing exponentially, as more invitations and requests started pouring in."

During this period the prince had gone from receiving 2,000 letters a year to 7,000, the author was told, and he was focused on six key areas: supporting the queen in her official duties, work with HIV/AIDS, supporting veterans, sport, conservation and his own development.

With this, Low recounts, the royal became increasingly demanding of those around him.

"He was around a lot," said a household source. "He was in the office a lot more. He was always messaging, making phone calls. It was non-stop. We spent a lot more time talking to him than the Cambridges."

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Prince Harry photographed saluting at Kandahar Airfield in Afghanistan during a remembrance service on November 9, 2014. The prince left the army in 2015 to take up full-time royal duties. Matt Cardy/Getty Images

"It was not all fun," the author states. "There was a lot of anger, which, although it was not necessarily directed at the staff, made for an intense atmosphere."

This anger, Low cites, was often provoked by the media and channelled into combatting what he deemed to be unfair stories.

"There were constant battles with the media, and expecting the team to be on your
side," Low reports from a staff member. "That was a big part of the relationship with the office, the battles he was fighting all the time...He was always on Twitter. You then had to be on everything, too. Every minor infraction was a big deal."

In recent years the prince's litigiousness towards media outlets has been partially blamed, among commentators and social media users, on his relationship with Meghan, with a number of the highest profile cases following their marriage. However, Low recounts that the royal's defensive nature predates this.

"He was fun to work with on tours when he wasn't angry," the author was told. "Very creative, very hands-on...He worked hard on tours. He cared about things not being done in a predictable way. He wanted engagements and speeches to be really good.

"He took every single thing he did, on tours in particular, really seriously...But the need for fights was there the whole time."

Prince Harry Visits HIV Service in London
Prince Harry visiting an HIV service at Kings College Hospital London on July 7, 2016. The royal focused on six key areas of work before his marriage, but his distrust of the media and some... Matt Dunham - WPA Pool/Getty Images

One of the main things Harry disliked, according to Low, was the "royal rota." This is the palace recognized system for allowing journalists and photographers access to royal engagements.

"Harry saw it as a cartel, which gave access to the same tabloids that ran inaccurate stories about him," Courtiers states.

"His argument was: why should he cooperate with those papers that made his life such a misery and had such poor professional standards, while other, more respectable, outlets—those who did not have full-time royal correspondents—did not get a look-in?"

Another issue Harry felt was a "mistrust of the courtiers at Buckingham Palace."

Both of these issues, Harry would later cite as factors for his decision to step away from his full-time working royal role in Britain alongside Meghan, but crucially, what Low presents is that these rifts and resentments grew over a long period of time, pre-dating his relationship with his now-wife.

Newsweek approached representatives of Prince Harry and Buckingham Palace for comment.

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About the writer

James Crawford-Smith is a Newsweek Royal Reporter, based in London, U.K. His focus is reporting on the British royal family and royal fashion. He has covered contemporary and historic issues facing King Charles III, Queen Camilla, Prince William, Kate Middleton, Prince Harry, Meghan Markle, the late Queen Elizabeth II and Princess Diana. James joined Newsweek in 2022 having previously contributed to titles such as The Lady, Majesty Magazine and Drapers. He also spent a number of years working with the curatorial department at Historic Royal Palaces, based at Kensington Palace, and contributed to the exhibitions Fashion Rules: Restyled (2016) and Diana: Her Fashion Story (2017). He also undertook private research projects with the Royal Ceremonial Dress Collection. He is a graduate of University College London and Central Saint Martins, where he studied fashion history. Languages: English.

You can get in touch with James by emailing j.crawfordsmith@newsweek.com.


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