Wives' Responses to Woman Eyeing up their Husbands Are Gold: 'No Refund'

Women across the internet have the best response to a TikTok user claiming married men are her type.

Captioned "sharing is caring, #fyp #bi #single #mytype" user @jessieskisses has gone viral after declaring a preference for other people's spouses.

Titled "When he says he's married," in the video Jessie flirtatiously makes eyes at the camera before beckoning with her finger. Whether the 21-year-old is serious or not is unknown, but married women across the internet have run with it, turning the short clip into a hilarious meme.

Comedian Shumirun Nessa's (@therealoverloadcomedy) relatable take on the trend has received over 385,000 likes in just 24 hours—more than 15 times the likes of the original video—along with 4,000 comments.

Stitching a clip of herself to the end of Jessie's video, Shumirun says: "He's already packed and in a box, ready to go!

"When you gonna come and pick him up? Huh?

"And remember, no refund and no return!"

According to the caption, Jessie has not yet arrived to claim Shumirun's husband.

Users couldn't get enough of the clip, with Chaydy88 writing: "No hesitation."

"Love this energy," commented Hayley.

"Don't forget his dirty laundry...you can do it now!" joked Knishere0.

A 2014 study by Pew Research Center indicated that heterosexual men who remarry choose younger wives the second time around. The research showed that 38 percent of men wed a significantly younger woman after divorcing their first wife. However, women who remarry are more likely to go for someone older, with 27 percent of women choosing a partner with a notable age difference.

A U.K. study conducted in 2017 suggested that men leaving their wives for a younger woman was responsible for a rise in divorces amongst middle-aged and older men. Between 1990 and 2012, the number of men aged 60 or over going through a divorce rose by 85 percent.

Tammy Nelson—director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute and a licensed sex and relationship therapist—said that older men who pursue younger women may be "losing confidence in their virility."

She told Newsweek: "[Older men might] value a woman who looks up to him, to feel respected and seen for what he can offer.

"Being with a younger, more naïve partner who has not gone through the difficult stages of child-rearing and early struggles of career-building with him can shore up his potentially flagging ego."

As for why a younger woman might choose an older man, Nelson said: "Although a bit of a trope, older men make women feel more appreciated.

"As we all strive to find our sexual strengths, we look for partners who help to align us with our needs at the time."

Shumirun isn't the only TikTok star to share their thoughts on Jessie's video. In a post liked 155,000 times, @lynda.sue said: "If you want him, come get him.

"I'd cook you something. I could make you some chicken dumplings and cobbler.

"It's good. I make my dumplings from scratch."

@Mrskariclark's version included a lot of potty talk.

"He's gassy," she said. "Farts like a mule.

"But if you want him and he'll go to you, go on and take him.

"Message me."

However, @leahforreal had a different perspective on Jessie's video. Referencing the #bi tag in the original caption, she said: "This girl is getting torn apart on my 'for your page' over the last few days.

"Go to the original video and read the original caption. She doesn't want your husband, she wants both of you."

Newsweek has reached out to @jessieskisses, @therealoverloadcomedy, @lynda.sue, @Mrskariclark and @leahforreal for comment.