What To Get A Picky Mother-in-Law For Christmas

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Buying gifts is the perfect way to show someone how much you love and care about them. But buying for an in-law can be slightly intimidating and stressful, especially when they are picky, making the task much harder.

"Gift guru" Leah Inman has told Newsweek she is inundated with messages asking for suggestions on what to buy a picky mother-in-law or one who already has "everything."

Inman, who is from Dallas, explained it is mainly women who struggle to find a present for in-laws.

According to a 2017 survey, more than 16 percent of 1,012 adult participants said in-laws were the hardest to buy for, although 34 percent stated their significant other was the most difficult person to buy for.

How To Pick The 'Perfect' Gift for A Mother-In-Law

Inman who uses the TikTok handle @LeahsGiftGuide has shared her "secret" formula for finding the perfect gift.

She recommends asking yourself the following questions when shopping for a mother-in-law:

1. Do they need anything/ or need anything upgraded?

2. What are their interests?

3. How do we enjoy spending time together?

She said: "I find that a thoughtful gift will answer one of the above questions but a meaningful gift will answer two or more of the questions."

Previously, 115,000 TikTokers watched the moment Inman suggested a "gift for the mother-in-law who has everything."

The gift should be simple yet effective and Inman suggests that a personalized pouch filled with your in-law's favorite things can be used as "an opportunity to show her how well you know her."

Thoughtful Gifts For Mother-In-Laws

Inman firmly believes that a thoughtful gift can go a long way, especially for fussy people.

"I really find gift giving to be a creative process and would even go far as to say that it can be an art!," she says.

"Watching someone open a gift I curated just for them might just be my favorite thing in the world," she told Newsweek.

One way to do this is through personalized items as mentioned by The Knot, a wedding marketplace, which has put together 50 of the "best" presents for mothers-in-law.

Many people are expected to buy fewer presents yet spend more this year because of inflation. The average holiday spend is expected to be $1,455 per household, according to Deloitte's 2022 Holiday Retail Survey. The audit firm has also revealed that low-income households are set to spend $671.

But no matter how big or small your budget is, Newsweek is here to help you find a gift.

Mother-in-Law Gift Idea Under $15

A Thoughtful Ornament

Letter
A gift that can be a token of appreciation for your mother-in-law. SOUHONEY/ Available on Amazon

This simple and sweet plaque is a great way to show your mother-in-law how much you appreciate her.

Buy from Amazon for $12.99

Mother-in-Law Gift Idea Under $30

Fancy Chocolates

Godiva on Amazon
Godiva Chocolatier is a Belgian-based international chocolate maker.

The best way to your mother-in-law's heart might be through her stomach with these indulgent gourmet chocolates from Godiva.

Buy from Amazon for $28.55

Mother-in-Law Gift Ideas Under $60

A Cozy Blanket

Amazon Gifts
A big, thick, soft, cozy light-gray knitted fleece blanket for $39.99 Longhui bedding Store / available on Amazon

This double-sided cozy throw is perfect for mother-in-law's who enjoy snuggling on the sofa while watching a film. This product will also save you a job as it comes packaged and ready to give as a gift with a red silk bow.

Buy now from Amazon for $39.99

Classic Chanel Lipstick

Amazon Gifts
Chanel Rouge Coco Ultra Hydrating Lip Color for $56.94 from Amazon. Chanel available on Amazon

If your in-law is a beauty fan, then this may be the perfect gift for her. It is an iconic Chanel lipstick that will hydrate and nourish the lips. This small gift will go a long way, as lipsticks last 18 to 24 months.

Buy now for $56.94 from Amazon

Subscription Box

Gift
A monthly book subscription costing $65 Crate Joy

This one is for the mother-in-law who loves nothing more than chilling out with a good book. This Crate Joy subscription can be purchased for $65 for one month, and it includes a themed soy candle, themed cocktail or tea, a custom book music playlist, themed self-care and beauty products, along with a newly released novel.

Mother-in-Law Gift Ideas Under $100

Indoor Plant System

Amazon Gifts
The perfect present for a keen gardener costing $74 Diivoo Store / available on Amazon

This indoor growing system is a convenient gift for keen gardeners. The smart garden planter hasn't got any weather limitations. It comes with a five-liter water tank along with automatic LED grow lights making it much easier for your mother-in-law to build a home indoor smart garden or grow fresh herbs, flowers and vegetables all-year-round and pick them at any time.

Buy it now for $74 from Amazon

Skincare Gift Set

Amazon Gifts
ELEMIS Makeup Prep x RIXO: The Story of Glam & Glow Amazon/ELEMIS Makeup Prep x RIXO: The Story of Glam & Glow

This glowing-skin essentials gift set will make your mother-in-law feel a million dollars as the products are said to "transform dull, dehydrated skin into skin that's nourished, hydrated and prepped for makeup" according to ELEMIS.

Buy now for $85 from Amazon

Slippers

Amazon Gifts
UGG Women's Dakota Slipper $99.95 UGG/ available on Amazon

You are bound to be in your mother-in-law's good books if you gift her these luxurious slippers. They are 100 percent wool and perfect for cold winter nights. UGG, the fashion brand, state the slippers "are not true to size as the innersole and sole are handcrafted from the same pattern as a pair of UGG boots." Therefore it is best to "size down" with these.

You can buy a pair of UGG slippers on Amazon


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About the writer

Lucy Notarantonio is Newsweek's Senior Lifestyle and Trends Reporter, based in Birmingham, UK. Her focus is trending stories and human interest features ranging from health, pets and travel. Lucy joined Newsweek in August 2022 and previously worked at Mercury Press and Media and other UK national newspapers, the Australian Women Magazines and The New York Post. My focus is human-interest stories ranging from relationships to health, fitness, travel, and home. I am always on the lookout for relationships that go against the "norm" such as age-gap ones along with incredible weight loss stories aimed to inspire and motivate others. Languages: English She is a Derby University graduate You can get in touch with l.notarantonio@newsweek.com.


Lucy Notarantonio is Newsweek's Senior Lifestyle and Trends Reporter, based in Birmingham, UK. Her focus is trending stories and human ... Read more